I need to rant. I am unbelievably livid right now.
This year, I’ve gone through emotional hell which led to apathetic purgatory, which is funny because it’s backwards, but that’s besides the point.
So, I know I should expect this from guys online, but does anyone have any decency anymore? I am very, very hesitant to meet anyone else on tinder after I met the BIGGEST ASSHOLE ever who insulted me multiple times in the 15 minutes we were together. Also, I almost fell for a guy too and he disappeared after saying “oh, i want to stay in contact and study and hang out.” And finally, another guy was so insistent on meeting me, but made 0 attempts to actually come see me and made it my fault that we didn’t meet. This is after I told him multiple times that I was busy and could not commute an extra hour just to “hang out” at his place.
but yes, I’ve hooked up with two guys from tinder. HOWEVER, I did not meet them with the intention of hooking up with them, we actually hung out before anything.
I also take nudes, but that’s because I look frick fracking great naked.
But some of these guys take this and think “oh, shes dtf, and she’s open, I should just expect her to spread her legs open just because she’s had sex before.”
I had a guy tell me that I shouldn’t be so close minded about new guys just because other guys before were jerks. Uh, hello?????? You’re a jerk??? I opened up to you and you used it against me??? Asshole.
Just now, this guy was like “omg, you actually hooked up with more than one person on tinder???” ON TINDER. HE ASKED ME ON TINDER.
I said, “yeah, do you have a problem with that?”
“no, i’m just shocked people actually do that.”
“you think out of everyone on tinder, no ones gonna hook up?”
“no i knew.”
wtf, bro. what are you even saying.
WHO CARES IF I DO IT ANYWAYS, HOW DOES MY NUMBER AFFECT YOU IN ANY WAY???????
JUST BECAUSE I’M OPEN ABOUT MY SEX LIFE, DOES NOT MEAN I’M DOWN TO SCREW ANYBODY.
ughhhhhh. get out.